I mulled over the name 'coinbuyer555' for a while then mentioned him my wife....click...
Some time ago he Neg Feedbacked her on Ebay over a clearly photographed coin that she was selling for me.
The usual clearout. The fault on the coin he moaned about was clearly visible in the picture.
He moaned, we raised our eyebrows, she offered him a refund three times- no reply,
just a negative feedback. She was very upset and we blocked him.
It was like he thought hope altered reality, and what he could see didn't really exist.
We thought at the time that he was just one of those people who like to 'wield power',
and be spiteful when given half a chance.
I've got to the top of my business, and my advice to trainees is this:
To raise yourself above others around you, you can go round knocking them down one at a time,
a very laborious process, and you don't look good at the end or made any friends you may well need in the future,
or,
you stand on a chair.
I chose the latter. You just keep your head down and work hard, and never stop learning, and keep all colleagues
and rivals on-side and friendly. That works.
Basically, if you want to be Somebody, go and become just that. Slowly.
Pretending you are Somebody from the beginning and thinking you are some sort of God never ever works in the long term.
B