You see, the very use of the words "crusade" and "brigade" betrays your position, which is - if you'll excuse me - itself extreme. No-one has been able to successfully define what 'woke' actually means; it just seems to be a modern form of 'political correctnesss', which itself was largely a fabrication of the likes of the Mail.
Being disabled, I use the NHS a lot and I can assure you that "woman" and "mother" - despite the bleatings of the Mail - are still in use.
As for the whole trans debate, yes there are many issues there which are far from resolved.